With the election, we hear how candidates need to "frame the issue better." At work, our boss tells us to "frame the problem differently." While I'm listening to a guided meditation, the voice of Andy Puddicombe, an ex Buddhist monk, soothingly tells me, "A big part of [meditation] is how we frame the exercise.
By changing your outlook, the mind softens." So I thought, OK, if framing is such a powerful force, how can we leverage it in the world of dating? D., author of and an authority on the intersection of neurons and Cupid. "It's always modifying itself to see this way or that." As part of her research, Fisher recruited people who said they're madly in love, hooked them up to MRIs, and scanned their brains.
Memphis Grizzlies player Matt Barnes (left) allegedly drove to beat Knicks coach Derek Fisher who is dating Barnes' estranged wife Gloria Govan (right).
He only stopped when his son told him to, TMZ reports An unidentified source said that Kicks coach Derek Fisher (left) and Govan, who stars on basketball Wives LA, have been dating for 'a few months', and that when Barnes heard Fisher was at Gloria's home he 'went crazy' drove there to 'beat the sh**t' out of Fisher The New York Post reports that Fisher and Govan, who stars on basketball Wives LA, have been dating for 'a few months', and that when Barnes heard Fisher was at Gloria's home he 'went crazy' drove there to 'beat the sh**t' out of Fisher.'Matt and I were together for eight years.
Knicks coach Derek Fisher was attacked in Los Angeles by NBA bad boy Matt Barnes, who drove 95 miles to “beat the s—t out of him” when he found out Fisher was romancing his estranged wife, sources told The Post on Wednesday.
The 6-foot-7 Barnes, who now plays for the Memphis Grizzlies, made a fast break from his team’s California training camp Saturday when he was tipped off that Fisher was making time with sultry “Basketball Wives LA” star Gloria Govan in the home Barnes once shared with her. Sources told The Post that Barnes became incensed when his 6-year-old twin sons, Carter and Isaiah, called to tell him that Fisher was at the house. He got in his car and went to the house and went after Fisher,” one source said.
“Matt then drove down there to beat the s–t out of him.” Fisher and Barnes were teammates on the LA Lakers for two seasons.
Barnes — a forward who’s known as an “enforcer” for his aggressive style of play — found Fisher, Govan and about 10 other people around a bonfire in the back yard, sources said. between the 235-pound Barnes and the 6-1, 200-pound Fisher.
In 1977, she starred in a sci-fi movie from the director of .
As a result, we're We can thank evolution for this ability to focus on the giddy, so-in-love feeling and block out (almost) everything else. We're not stuck with first impressions—and that means even a not-so-amazing first date could turn into a meaningful relationship, if we let it."Reframing is very powerful," says Wendy Suzuki, Ph.
From a biological perspective, "the most important thing we do with our lives is to find a mating partner—to send our lineage to the next generation," says Fisher. "For years, I went out with a man who was really slow. D., a neuroscientist at New York University and author of . When you say something positive, and you do it again and again, you're reframing the thoughts that run through your mind." So, before a date, it can be as simple as swapping .
Though Fisher had no idea what a phenomenon the movie would become, she did sign on for it primarily because its script “was really cool”—and because of how strong her role, the fearless Princess Leia, was.
“I don't know what your idea of distress is, but that wasn't [it],” she told would go on to launch a global empire of films, television series, books, and merchandise. It wasn't my choice,” she told NPR in November.